7 Tips against Self-doubt: Get Ready to Shine!
When you lack self-confidence and emotional strength, the development of your business can be seriously affected.
In this article, we will take a closer look at the causes of self-doubt and we will discuss some effective measures against it.
We tend to compare ourselves with other people, and when we cannot see their same success or abilities in ourselves, we often crumble away. We may feel that we lag behind, that we're not able to keep up with their pace, and that we fail at doing what we do.
Self-doubt is just “self”
Often, the reason behind our lack of self-confidence lies in a low self-esteem. A person with a low self-esteem will underestimate his own achievements, focus on his weaknesses, and give up after the first failure. This kind of people depend on others' opinion and approval. They generally are pessimists and subject to stress and anxiety.
Improving your self-esteem is easier than you think
You can start working on it right now! Stretch your back and shoulders and take a deep breath. A correct posture is the first step towards self-confidence!
Let's get started: combat the lack of self-confidence!
- Your opinion is valuable
Asking for advice is not the same as being dependent on the opinion and approval of others. Seeking advice is normal, but you have to understand that your opinion matters too. Take you own decisions based on a little bit of advice but also on your inner voice. And bear in mind that not everybody will always agree with you: sometimes you will have to stand up for your opinion.
- Take responsibilities with no fear
You may be afraid of having taken the wrong decision, but that is the only way you take responsibilities and gain in experience, which are necessary for a healthy self-esteem. Remember that everybody makes mistakes, but that is how we learn and move forward.
- Learn to talk as carefully as you listen
The same way you listen to other people, you need to speak yourself clearly too. No one is born a brilliant speaker, but this ability will make increase your self-confidence.
- Acknowledge your strengths
Of course, knowing your weaknesses is OK, but you need to pay more attention to your strengths. Learn to notice or even write down the things you're good at: if you value the positive things in you, you will grow enormously.
- Accept others’ compliments
This can be difficult! When someone compliments you on something, accept and thank it. If you say: "Oh, that’s nothing" or "It's nothing special", you will only be feeding your low self-esteem. If people compliment you on something is because they admire you. Let them do so!
- Take criticism with a pinch of salt
Criticism can be constructive or destructive. And it is good to learn from it, but it is useless to dwell in negative statements someone said about you. Take what's constructive, draw your own conclusions and move on. Don’t stress out!
- Surround yourself with the right people
If you spend a lot of time with pessimists and whiners, you will not make any progress. They will impose their own low self-esteem on you. Surround yourself with positive and friendly people who support you when you need it.
Certainly, you cannot improve your self-esteem overnight, but if you follow these tips, you will eventually see the results! Remember that we learn by doing and achieve by pursuing!
We wish you all the best!
You too can become a successful gold businessperson.